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	<title>Comments on: PTSD Identity: Reckless Sex to Feel Alive and Worthwhile</title>
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		<title>By: Dr. Z</title>
		<link>http://www.ptsdspirituality.com/2009/09/15/ptsd-identity-reckless-sex-to-feel-alive-and-worthwhile/comment-page-1/#comment-2685</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 04:29:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While there are some folks who may claim that only military-based PTSD is a real, valid PTSD, that is not the case here at PTSD Spirituality.  There are over 100 essays on this site, so I don&#039;t expect you to be conversant with them all.  But one in particular may be of some use to you as regards the question of PTSD and military versus civilain trauma: You may wish to read the essay at http://www.ptsdspirituality.com/2011/03/15/ptsd-spirituality-big-lie-2-is-only-combat-veterans-get-ptsd/ where I make the point that military service is not a unque indentifier for PTSD.

When you ask what about those who are victims of crime, deceit etc., my response is that I care about them just as much as I do about military-linked PTSD.  I know it is not fashionable to say this, but I care about whoever is struggling with PTSD, regardless of cause.  PTSD does not care how a person became traumatized.  Trauma comes in all types.  I care about anyone who is hurting - I hope you do too.

Your statement about military personeel knowing what they were getting into when they signed their service contract is mistaken on two grounds.  First, drafted soldiers did not choose to sign up.  Second, the way military service is marketed to the young - they do use advertising to recruit them, after all - means that most people do not fully know what they are getting into  Some youngsters have been told by recruiters thatthey would never see combat or hardship..hardly the truth.  Even if someone fully, intellectually understood what they might experience in the military, most still cannot fathom the experience until they have actually experienced the trauma.

You ask about why is there not a simple PTSD diagnosis for all, civilian and military.  Actually, there is.  If you look at DSM-IV and the upcoming DSM-V, the criteria for PTSD are not limited to or exclusive to only military trauma.  That people have caused the survivors of civililan-based trauma to feel diminished compared to military-based trauma is unfortunate and wrong.  Every life, no matter how it is lived, whether civilian or military has value.  That includes your life.  You, too, have value.

While my own PTSD stems from military service, and I was not a draftee, I am sympathetic to anyone who has been trauamtized and now has PTSD.  You have value - and so does the life and journey of all others.  I wish you peace.
Semper Pax, Dr. Z</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While there are some folks who may claim that only military-based PTSD is a real, valid PTSD, that is not the case here at PTSD Spirituality.  There are over 100 essays on this site, so I don&#8217;t expect you to be conversant with them all.  But one in particular may be of some use to you as regards the question of PTSD and military versus civilain trauma: You may wish to read the essay at <a href="http://www.ptsdspirituality.com/2011/03/15/ptsd-spirituality-big-lie-2-is-only-combat-veterans-get-ptsd/" rel="nofollow">http://www.ptsdspirituality.com/2011/03/15/ptsd-spirituality-big-lie-2-is-only-combat-veterans-get-ptsd/</a> where I make the point that military service is not a unque indentifier for PTSD.</p>
<p>When you ask what about those who are victims of crime, deceit etc., my response is that I care about them just as much as I do about military-linked PTSD.  I know it is not fashionable to say this, but I care about whoever is struggling with PTSD, regardless of cause.  PTSD does not care how a person became traumatized.  Trauma comes in all types.  I care about anyone who is hurting &#8211; I hope you do too.</p>
<p>Your statement about military personeel knowing what they were getting into when they signed their service contract is mistaken on two grounds.  First, drafted soldiers did not choose to sign up.  Second, the way military service is marketed to the young &#8211; they do use advertising to recruit them, after all &#8211; means that most people do not fully know what they are getting into  Some youngsters have been told by recruiters thatthey would never see combat or hardship..hardly the truth.  Even if someone fully, intellectually understood what they might experience in the military, most still cannot fathom the experience until they have actually experienced the trauma.</p>
<p>You ask about why is there not a simple PTSD diagnosis for all, civilian and military.  Actually, there is.  If you look at DSM-IV and the upcoming DSM-V, the criteria for PTSD are not limited to or exclusive to only military trauma.  That people have caused the survivors of civililan-based trauma to feel diminished compared to military-based trauma is unfortunate and wrong.  Every life, no matter how it is lived, whether civilian or military has value.  That includes your life.  You, too, have value.</p>
<p>While my own PTSD stems from military service, and I was not a draftee, I am sympathetic to anyone who has been trauamtized and now has PTSD.  You have value &#8211; and so does the life and journey of all others.  I wish you peace.<br />
Semper Pax, Dr. Z</p>
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		<title>By: Mose Stephenson</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mose Stephenson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 00:15:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sick of people only validating military service overseas as relevant criteria to the diagnosis of PTSD!!! They damn well knew what they were getting into when they signed on! What about those of us who&#039;ve been physically and emotionally abused in every day life? The victims of crime and deceit on a variety of levels? When you put the military first; you leave out legions of others with equally legitimate concerns! Why doesn&#039;t a simple diagnosis of PTSD mean the same for all; instead of just the military?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sick of people only validating military service overseas as relevant criteria to the diagnosis of PTSD!!! They damn well knew what they were getting into when they signed on! What about those of us who&#8217;ve been physically and emotionally abused in every day life? The victims of crime and deceit on a variety of levels? When you put the military first; you leave out legions of others with equally legitimate concerns! Why doesn&#8217;t a simple diagnosis of PTSD mean the same for all; instead of just the military?</p>
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		<title>By: Dr. Z</title>
		<link>http://www.ptsdspirituality.com/2009/09/15/ptsd-identity-reckless-sex-to-feel-alive-and-worthwhile/comment-page-1/#comment-471</link>
		<dc:creator>Dr. Z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jul 2010 13:50:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello, You are in the midst of an immense struggle - both of you.  In some ways you yourself have been hit with what I call PTSD shrapnel.  While we remain responsible for our actions caused by PTSD, we can also use them to engage in reflection and repentance.  Many of us have struggled with people who don&#039;t undrstand what we have gone through and those who don&#039;t want to know what we have gone through.  Part of the PTSD struggle is that the challenges and loss of meaning continue well beyond the events which gave us PTSD.  One hopes that the events you describe may serve as a wake up call to the PTSD and together you can both focus on the understanding and healing of this terrible situation.  Even King David wrote Psalm 51 after his adultery caused so much death and destruction.  I and others pray for graceful healing in your family.  Semper Pax, Dr. Z</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello, You are in the midst of an immense struggle &#8211; both of you.  In some ways you yourself have been hit with what I call PTSD shrapnel.  While we remain responsible for our actions caused by PTSD, we can also use them to engage in reflection and repentance.  Many of us have struggled with people who don&#8217;t undrstand what we have gone through and those who don&#8217;t want to know what we have gone through.  Part of the PTSD struggle is that the challenges and loss of meaning continue well beyond the events which gave us PTSD.  One hopes that the events you describe may serve as a wake up call to the PTSD and together you can both focus on the understanding and healing of this terrible situation.  Even King David wrote Psalm 51 after his adultery caused so much death and destruction.  I and others pray for graceful healing in your family.  Semper Pax, Dr. Z</p>
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		<title>By: Saran Rogers</title>
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		<dc:creator>Saran Rogers</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Jul 2010 14:29:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wanted to thank you for this article. My husband and I are going through this right know. He has severe PTSD from one of his tours in Iraq. He was on Staff Duty and had meet a person over the internet and meet her that night to have sex. He has been charged with Adultery and leaving his duty station. Im still very upset but at the same time trying to support him. He always tells me  &quot;you dont understand what im going through&quot;. After running across your article I have a bit more of a understanding. Thank you very much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wanted to thank you for this article. My husband and I are going through this right know. He has severe PTSD from one of his tours in Iraq. He was on Staff Duty and had meet a person over the internet and meet her that night to have sex. He has been charged with Adultery and leaving his duty station. Im still very upset but at the same time trying to support him. He always tells me  &#8220;you dont understand what im going through&#8221;. After running across your article I have a bit more of a understanding. Thank you very much.</p>
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		<title>By: PTSD Spirituality: PTSD Despair Destroys Self-Worth</title>
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		<dc:creator>PTSD Spirituality: PTSD Despair Destroys Self-Worth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 15:27:15 +0000</pubDate>
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